We have now received a “save the date” card for daughter No. 3. I’m curious — what would you do? –– UNTHANKED IN INDIANA DEAR UNTHANKED: If I felt close to the daughter, I would attend the wedding. I ...

Wedding experts advise starting cash giving ... "It's common to give anywhere from $100 to $1,000. I often see the card box on the gift table oozing with overstuffed envelopes," Burton said.